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Wednesday, March 24, 2010

好东西与大家分享


1.莎士比亚说:
再好的东西,都有失去的一天。
再深的记忆,也有淡忘的一天。
再爱的人,也有远走的一天。
再美的梦,也有苏醒的一天。
该放弃的决不挽留。
该珍惜的决不放手,分手后不可以做朋友,因为彼此伤害过
也不可以做敌人,因为彼此深爱过。

2.几米说:
当你喜欢我的时候,我不喜欢你,
当你爱上我的时候,我喜欢上你,
当你离开我的时候,我却爱上你,
是你走得太快,还是我跟不上你的脚步,
我们错过了诺亚方舟,错过了泰坦尼克号,
错过了一切的惊险与不惊险,我们还要继续错过。
我不了解我的寂寞来自何方,但我真的感到寂寞。
你也寂寞,世界上每个人都寂寞,只是大家的寂寞都不同吧

3.刘心武说:
不要指望,麻雀会飞得很高。
高处的天空,那是鹰的领地。
麻雀如果摆正了自己的位置,它照样会过得很幸福!

4.亦舒说:
人们日常所犯最大的错误,是对陌生人太客气,而对亲密的人太 苛刻,
把这个坏习惯改过来,天下太平。

5.郭敬明说:
我终于发现自己看人的眼光太过简单,我从来没有去想面具下面 是一张怎样的面容,
我总是直接把面具当做面孔来对待,却忘记了笑脸面具下往往都 是一张流着泪的脸。

6.张小娴说:
爱,从来就是一件千回百转的事。
不曾被离弃,不曾受伤害,怎懂得爱人?



7.韩寒说:
再累再苦就当自己是二百五再难再险就当自己是二皮脸。

8.安妮宝贝说:
当一个女子在看天空的时候,她并不想寻找什么。
她只是寂寞。

9.遇见平凡说:
缘分像一本书。
翻的不经意会错过童话读得太认真又会流干眼泪。

10.刘心武说:
对不起是一种真诚,没关系是一种风度。
如果你付出了真诚,却得不到风度,那只能说明对方的无知与粗俗!

11.亦舒说:
无论怎么样,一个人借故堕落总是不值得原谅的,越是没有人爱,越要爱自己。

12.刘心武说:
与其讨好别人,不如武装自己;
与其逃避现实,不如笑对人生;
与其听风听雨,不如昂首出击!



13.张爱玲说:
娶了红玫瑰,久而久之,红玫瑰就变成了墙上的一抹蚊子血,白 玫瑰还是“床前明月光”;
娶了白玫瑰,白玫瑰就是衣服上的一粒饭渣子,红的还是心口上 的一颗朱砂痣。

14.三毛说:
一个朋友很好,两个朋友就多了一点,三个朋友就未免太多了。
知音,能有一个已经很好了,不必太多,
如果实在没有,还有自己,好好对待自己,跟自己相处,也是一 个朋友...

15.雪小禅说:
我以为终有一天,我会彻底将爱情忘记,将你忘记,
可是,忽然有一天,我听到了一首旧歌,我的眼泪就下来了
因为这首歌,我们一起听过。

16.郭敖说:
我们始终都在练习微笑,终于变成不敢哭的人。

17.三毛说:
不要害怕拒绝他人,如果自己的理由出于正当。
当一个人开口提出要求的时候,他的心里根本预备好了两种答 案。
所以,给他任何一个其中的答案,都是意料中的。

18.梓色心晴说:
男人哭了,是因为他真的爱了。
女人哭了,是因为她真得放弃了。



19.玄漪说:
能够说出的委屈,便不算委屈;
能够抢走的爱人,便不算爱人。

20.张爱玲说:
爱情本来并不复杂,来来去去不过三个字,
不是我爱你、我恨你,
便是算了吧、你好吗、对不起。

21.马云说:
晚上想想千条路,早上醒来走原路。

22.饶雪漫说:
这个世界欺骗了我,我必须给与还击,我不会放掉任何一丁点儿 属于我的幸福,
哪怕付出的代价是从此坠入地狱,我也在所不惜。

23.郭敖说:
每个人一生之中心里总会藏着一个人,也许这个人永远都不会知 道,
尽管如此,这个人始终都无法被谁所替代。
而那个人就像一个永远无法愈合的伤疤,
无论在什么时候,只要被提起,或者轻轻的一碰,就会隐隐作 痛。

24.GARVEN说:
话是人说的,屁也是人放的,说话和放屁一样,都是一口气而 已。



25.三毛说:
某些人的爱情,只是一种“当时的情绪”。
如果对方错将这份情绪当做长远的爱情,是本身的幼稚。

26.张小娴说:
如果没法忘记他,就不要忘记好了。
真正的忘记,是不需要努力的。

27.人非草木说:
再丑的人也能结婚,再美的人也会单身!

28.张爱玲说:
因为爱过,所以慈悲;
因为懂得,所以宽容。


Thursday, March 18, 2010

i hate lonely

yes i`m totally hate lonely......i dont like to be lonely

ever since brother move out...i`m staying alone in my own room....everyday facing the same walls and the door. no one can share with me neither joke nor story....

whenever i thought of lonely i`ll just cry for no reason....dont know why

yesterday i brought a friend of mine staying with me....we just chat and watching movie.....
but i felt very happy already because there`s someone stay with me....

time so fast and past.....he went back ....i sent him back.
then when i back to my own room, i felt the lonely had just came back to me.

and guess what? i cry in the sudden for no reason.

i remember last time when a friend of mine being hospitalised, it was so serious....i could accept seeing him being pluck so many things in his body......i just say calm and dont cry out because i scare he will sad when seeing me like this. when i reached home i only cry.....

yes i really place my friends on the top.....i couldnt say anything when one day if they betrayed me. friends are needed badly for me..........

Saturday, March 13, 2010

nO tiTle

this is what i want to say right here

well....u look ordinary just like others and no doubt about your result.......really good. but i`m not jealous on you also as i also working hard for it. but what i cant accept is that...u been a follower but you are not acting accordingly...you never listen and never practice. you categorised me into group i`m sure....i knew i already in that insane group le and i dont mind because i`m insane. but i know that was a play that why i`m not angry nor sad. but u?? categorised me into a group where ppl dont know and so as i....u are the only one who knows. been talking to u but u tried to hid and yes.....u did it but it`s ok as long as i still got my very own gang to play and have fun with it will be enough as i have trust into them not u anymore...dissapointed at u.

talking at my back will be fined but what...u really talking at my back....just beside me....hahah cant believe it......saying me insane and dont need talk or care to me....well as we are here to have fun why we should hide ourself from being explored ? maybe one day i will be a actor or what? or doing show....exploring your talent is the most thing ever. telling the truth u also dont want trust. talk to u but u ignore. is this what u learnt? no isnt it.

you isnt utilise what u have learnt since childhood. did mom ask u behave nicely ? sure yes but u never obey. and U yes i`m mentioning u....stop manipulating about me....i`m not that bad as u have it inside ur brain. i`m neutral about everything....EVERYRHING ok.....please dont simply tell to your friends and ask them get rid of me. i dont bite neither chew...i need them badly as we are here together brought by HIM. it`s your trauma not they........please dont share negative stuff as what i did last time..as i have changed. ...

when i`m around u or next to you do u think i need something from u that`s why i`m coming to you? answer from me is no........i`m just try to make our friendship more concrete. but what u thought? nonsense.... stop day dreaming la...no interested la.....main thing is study la.

dissapointed when i knew about this. well i dint write this to whom may feel it`s for him or her.....just dont accuse me anymore as i hate it.

Saturday, March 6, 2010

沒有永遠對的價值觀

沒有永遠對的價值觀‏

朋友手拿一份報紙,說讓我做一個小小的測驗,我欣然同意了。

問題一:如果你知道有一個女人懷孕了,她已經生了八個小孩,其中有三個耳朵聾、兩個眼睛瞎、一個智能不足,

而這女人自己又有梅毒,請問,你會建議她墮胎嗎?

我剛要回答,朋友制止了我,又問我第二個問題。

問題二:現在要選舉一名領袖,而你這一票很關鍵。

下面是關於這三位候選人的一些事實:

候選人A
跟一些不誠實的政客有往來,而且會咨詢占星學家。他有婚外情,是一個老煙槍,每天喝8─10杯的馬丁尼。

候選人B

他過去有兩次被解雇的記錄,睡覺睡到中午才起來,大學時吸過鴉片,而且每天傍晚會喝一夸特的威士忌。

候選人C
他是一位受勛的戰爭英雄,素食主義者,不抽煙,只偶爾喝一點啤酒。從沒有發生過婚外情。

請問你會在這些候選人中選哪一個?
朋友讓我把答案寫在紙上,然後告訴我說:

候選人A是:富蘭克林羅斯福,
候選人B是:溫斯頓邱吉爾,
候選人C是:亞道夫希特勒。

我聽了答案驚訝地張大了嘴巴。朋友表情凝重地問我:
你是不是為世界人民選擇了希特勒?那你會建議這位婦女墮胎嗎?

我說:這個問題不用考慮,我們受計劃生育優生優育教育多年了,都生那麼多歪瓜劣棗了,就別再添亂了。當然墮胎啊。

朋友說:你殺了貝多芬,她是貝多芬的母親。
我又一次吃驚地張大了嘴巴。
朋友說:嚇一跳吧?本來你認為很好很人道主義的答案,結果卻扼殺了貝多芬、創造了希特勒?

最後朋友總結道:所以不要用既定的價值觀來思考事物

我抓過朋友手中的報紙,原來真是一個測驗題,題目是《你的決定滅了誰》。
重要的是,不是我們在哪,而是我們要往哪走......
如果你知道往哪走,并且相信自己,世界會為你開出一條路.......